When Friends Disagree - Relationships, Elections & Forgiveness

Today is a very significant day...for it is the day whenparticle meditation - a very short few minutes - can be
each soul can choose anew through their thoughts,accessed free online at You can listen to it as
words, and actions to move our world closer to peacefrequently as you like at this site.
and universal fulfillment, or backwards into more2. Relax yourself however you know. The above
belligerence, ill-will, and hatred.guided meditation audio will help you. Other good ways
These feelings serve as magnets that draw moreto relax are to take a walk, exercise, get in nature -
similar feelings into your life. Feelings similar tomaybe garden if you like.
whatever you are broadcasting yourself with your3. Listen to soothing music you like. I found myself
thoughts, words, and emotions.disturbed last night as a long-time friend took a very
It is a generally recognized awareness by most peopledifferent stand on the upcoming election candidates
and most medical people that hard, angry, bellicose,than I thought she would. Indeed, her view were
ill-will thoughts lead to ill health, depression, and otherexactly opposite to mine. I saw myself have an
lower energy and frequencies of lack.immediate reaction of dislike, and some old inner
These lower feelings can literally make you sick - andprogram wanted to ridicule her choice.
tired - and broke.I emailed her asking her to explain WHY she was
A good way to know if you are coming from love,choosing the way she was. Her replying explanation
rather than old infected wounds, is to monitor andwas so clear and honoring, and expressed a point of
measure your mood.view I hadn't considered.
Do you feel calm and happy with a thought, word, orAs I took some quiet time to reflect on her choices
event?and awareness, I saw I was coming from fear - not
Or do you feel agitated, irritated, and find one of yourfrom love and acceptance for another person's point
old corrupted wound-laden programs popped up andof view.
activated - even without your noticing it?I allowed myself to be with that fear... and as I sat with
Oh, WHERE is that inner pop-up blocker when I need itit over a cup of coffee - I saw that my unconscious
!reaction of judgment and ridicule was emitting from a
Don't worry, though. Even better than an inner pop-upfear that all my previous life experiences that had led
blocker, is an inner pop-up eraser.me to one set of beliefs was being dishonored by
As you begin to pay attention to your energy levelssomeone choosing a different candidate preference.
and how you feel from thoughts, words, actions andThen I saw that I was allowing myself to feel
focus, you will find direct evidence as to whether ordishonored and de-valued.
not your thoughts, words, and actions are creating theI sat and allowed those feelings to wash over me.
abundance of energy and joy that you are looking forThen I asked that those feelings leave me.
... or if you are replaying old - and maybe - unconsciousOnce I did that, it felt as though a heavy cloud lifted off
programs of lack, fighting, ill-will that make you sick,me. I immediately felt lighter and more peaceful.
tired, depressed, and broke.Upon releasing those unfounded feelings, I checked my
Not that is is advisable to ignore the overt aggressionemail, and found an inspirational YouTube video waiting
of ill-feeling people. An alternative strategy is to keepto greet me. Watching it lifted my spirits and raised my
yourself vibrating at such higher levels of thought,own vibration back into self-confidence, self- esteem,
words, and feelings that these people have a lot ofand self-acceptance. With those increased feelings
trouble finding you on their radar. And you, them.about myself, I could now ALLOW those feelings
When you catch yourself replaying old negative lackabout another person - and ALLOW our relationship to
ill-will programs on the screen of your mind, you canincrease its joy and energy - instead of killing off a
erase them and send them packing by using a few ofnotch with my unconscious judgments and projections
these techniques:of fear.
1. Breathe deeply of gold light particles. The golden light