Happiness - A Spiritual Course

What is happiness? What do we mean by this termmomentary pleasure, but from human growth. He
and how do we attain it? Philosophers, psychologistsattached greater value to pursuits that were important
and social scientists, who have been exploring andto the human race as a whole, rather than the
debating this issue for millenia, have concluded thatindividual's own pleasure alone. This is a more holistic
there are two ways of looking at it:view, seeing the individual as part of the whole and
One is known as the hedonic theory. This suggestsdefining happiness as the point at which your own
that happiness - or well-being - is entirely about thefulfillment coincides with that of wider society. This is
attainment of pleasure and the avoidance of pain. Thewhen you live in accordance with your "daimon" i.e.
more pleasure you have and the less pain you"true self".
experience, the happier you are and the greater yourWorking as a psychiatrist, I often see the darker side -
well being. Simple.i.e. the unhappiness that swirls around us and it is clear
On the other side is the Eudaimonic theory. Thisto me that any attempt to lead a life on hedonistic
focuses on meaning, and defines well-being in terms ofprinciples alone is ultimately doomed to failure. To
self realization, i.e. the extent to which we are fulfillingalways strive to maximize pleasure and avoid pain is in
our potential in life.itself a way of inviting pain. Take, for example, the
The hedonic view goes all the way back to the Greekphenomenon of bipolar disorder. The crashing into
philosopher, Aristippus, who in the fourth century B.C.,depression is an inevitable consequence of
described the ultimate goal in life as experiencing theexperiencing episodes of mania. This is so inevitable
maximum amount of pleasure. He defined happinessthat, in fact, it is physically impossible to experience
as the sum total of the hedonic moments you havemania without an episode of depression at some point
had in life. Other philosophers have added to this notionin life too. That is why bipolar disorder is a well known
since; Hobbes argued that happiness was all aboutclinical disorder but there is no such thing as pure
successfully pursuing our human appetites, whilemania.
DeSade suggest that the purpose of life was theA bit like an economy that spins out of control (as it
pursuit of sensation and pleasure. Hedonism hasrecently did), the crash is always round the corner.
ultimately come to be defined as subjective well being.Hedonism as a route to happiness is, therefore, illusory.
The Eudaimonic view counts among its supporters, notFar more tangible and sustainable is the happiness one
just philosophers and psychologists but visionariesgains by making a difference, by putting our unique
including spiritual and religious teachers from both Eastmake up, perspectives and talents to use and thus
and West. Aristotle believed that true happiness washelping others as well as ourselves. It may not come
to be found in the expression of virtue - i.e. in doing thatwith a rush, but it comes with something a lot deeper
which was worth doing. More recently Fromminstead - true happiness - or, rather, contentment.
described true happiness as deriving, not from