Evil Spirits -- Can We Be Haunted or Possessed?

I have had clients come to me to describe beingpossessed came from within that individual, and so the
haunted or they may raise concerns that they may beonly power which will help them will also come from
possessed. It is often the case that what my clientswithin them.
were experiencing was just a case of recklessMany people may object and say that god, or a saint,
imagination. But sometimes there have been those oddangel, spirit guide or psychic may help someone who is
feelings that there might be some truth to the matter.haunted or possessed. It is my belief that this may be
Fortunately the same advice which can help a subjecttrue in practice, and that any of these may succeed in
who is genuinely haunted or possessed can also helpregard to freeing a subject from their evil spirit.
a subject whose imagination is the only thingHowever, I also believe that this type of help only does
possessing them.the subject further harm, particularly if they have
If I were to tell an imaginative subject that they wereturned to a skillful charlatan for help. A skillful charlatan
not haunted or possessed they would be stronglycan influence the mind of a possessed or haunted
inclined to disbelieve me no matter how gently orsubject to successfully guide the subject to relieve
eloquently I might try to lead them to the truth. Thethemselves of their attachment to a malign entity; but in
subject has chosen to adopt a belief that they may bethis case the charlatan may also be regarded as a
haunted or possessed for a reason; they may wantmalign entity for it is in the nature of such a person to
attention, or they may sometimes exhibit peculiar oruse their knowledge to take advantage of a subject
embarrassing behavior which they are trying to explainand relieve their subject of their worldly goods or
away by being haunted or possessed, or they mayservices to benefit themselves.
just want an excuse to be able to do things theyPutting the motive of worldly gain aside, a subject has
know are wrong or hurtful. Whatever their motive forbeen harmed if they believe that an entity other than
choosing to believe that they may be haunted orthemselves has relieved them of their problem with an
possessed they are most often looking for some formevil spirit, whether that help came from god, or a saint,
of reinforcement of their belief rather thanangel, spirit guide or psychic. This is because in this
disillusionment.case the subject has not empowered themselves to
Consequently, challenging their belief will not help amanage their own life and has instead surrendered
subject and may actually harm them; if a reactivetheir power in this situation to another party. It does not
formation occurs in a subject's mind in response tomatter how well intentioned an assisting party may be,
being challenged then a challenge may actually wind upif the party who assists such a subject fails to guide
reinforcing their chosen belief rather than dissuadingthe subject to a state of self-empowerment then they
them from it. Therefore, treating an imaginative subjecthave done that subject a disservice or injustice.
as a genuinely haunted or possessed person is oftenThe most important issue here is to guide the subject
the best option a psychic or spiritual counselor mayof a malign influence or belief to a state where they
have because by doing so we may make an allianceempower themselves so that they may independently
with our subject and be perceived as their friend; in thisresolve the issue to their satisfaction.
way the client may become more trusting and open toThe subject must be guided into the understanding that
our advice and guidance.everything that happens to them occurs because they
In regards to the truly haunted or possessed person ithave allowed it to happen to them even when they
must be understood that a subject in this state hasmay feel they have not given their permission to allow
allowed this to happen to them. It may most often besome particular thing to happen to them, such as being
the case that they are entirely unaware of havinghaunted or possessed.
opened themselves up to this experience, neverthelessThe subject must learn that they are an inviolable
it is so. Nothing can ever happen to us against our will.being. They must know that no entity, whether it is an
However, our will can be a tricky thing for it is dividedincorporeal being or an incarnate being, can ever harm
among our several states of consciousness and suchthem against their will in any way whatsoever.
an agreement may be made upon any of the levels ofUltimately, the subject must accept the wisdom that all
our minds which are known as the consciousness,the things they may have perceived as having hurt
sub-consciousness, unconsciousness orthem in their life have actually helped them since they
super-consciousness. Typically we are scarcely awarewould otherwise never have agreed to allow these
of most of our thoughts below the level of ourthings to happen.
consciousness and we cannot immediately apprehendSometimes a subject may make examples of murder,
that on some level of our mind we have agreed torape or maiming and say "But look! These people have
experience everything which happens in our lives.all been hurt!"
In the case of a subject who believes they may beIt may seem very insensitive to say that in these
haunted or possessed the subject of their responsibilitycases any people who have had these violent
for what has happened must be broached very gently.traumatic experiences are all responsible for having
It is important to stress to subjects who feel thebrought those experiences upon themselves, but that
presence of some malign entity in their lives that theyis the spiritual truth of the matter.
can take control of their situation and change it.All of our experiences are opportunities for our further
Whether real or imagined, if the subject believes thatspiritual growth and development. Even if we are slain
evil spirits are molesting them then terrible things mayour spirits go on and we may learn from our
happen to them as a consequence. By helping theexperience. Some lessons are much harder for some
subject to become actively involved in addressing andof us than for others and we may not always 'get it'
resolving their issue we may be able to guide them towhen these lessons appear in our lives, but sooner or
empower themselves to put an end to the matterlater we will learn our lessons and we will then be able
before it can do them any further harm.to move on to new lessons.
The state of belief that their lives have been invadedAt the point when we finally 'get it', whatever our
by an evil spirit is a form of harm in itself. The subjectlesson may be, any pain or displeasure associated with
typically feels powerless in this situation and surrenderslearning the lesson disappears. Once we have finally
control of some part of their life to their belief. Byunderstood a particular lesson we become grateful for
surrendering any control over their life to another entityeverything done on our behalf to teach us our lesson,
or to a part of themselves which indulges in unpleasanteven if it is gratitude toward someone whom we once
or hazardous behavior they have taken the first stepfelt hurt by.
upon a road which may lead them to do further injuryWhen the subject of a haunting or possession finally
to themselves or to others, particularly their loved ones'gets it' that they have created their situation and that
who will often be distraught by the circumstancesthey were always in control of it, then they may
created by a person who is either genuinely hauntedrelieve themselves of any unpleasantness that they
or possessed, or who believes themselves to be so.may have associated with their experience and move
Regardless of whether a person is truly haunted oron.
possessed or only believes themselves to be so theTypically, the lesson involved in cases of haunting or
subject must empower themselves to change theirpossession is to show the subject two things. The first
situation. Sometimes a subject's culture provides toolsthing the subject must learn is that they themselves
for dealing with these phenomena, such as usingare the center of all power in their life and that they
candles or bells and invoking good spirits or raising ahave total control over everything they experience.
white shield. Sometimes such a subject is open toThe second thing the subject may learn is that there is
adopting such tools from a different culture and maya subtle world beyond the conventional world we
have already tried to do so. Unfortunately, the toolsexperience, a world full of great mysteries to be
and rituals for psychic cleansing to rid oneself of evilexplored.
spirits may not always work because the real work isSo while it is possible that at some time in our lives we
done by the individual who is experiencing the problem.may come to believe we may be haunted or
The tools and rituals are only aides to focus thepossessed and that it is further possible that our belief
resolve of the subject to end the situation and suchin this regard is true, we can only become haunted or
tools have no power in and of themselves. All thepossessed if we ourselves allow it to happen to us.
power to create the circumstances in which a subjectAnd who knows?
comes to believe that they may be haunted or