| As a practicing magician and shaman,I am often asked, | | | | - has a certain kind of personality |
| "Do love spells work?" | | | | - has any other desired characteristics |
| This is a tough question and I wish I could give people | | | | Your limiters may state that the man: |
| the answer that they really want to hear, which is that | | | | - does not have any pre-existing health issues |
| you can cast a love spell and have the person of your | | | | - does not have any children from previous marriages |
| dreams fall in love with you. Unfortunately you can't. | | | | - any other limiters you do not want to bring into a new |
| From my years of magical practice, I know that this | | | | relationship |
| type of love spell, which makes a specific person fall in | | | | Obviously you may not be able to think of everything |
| love with you, has a good chance of backfiring. | | | | to put on your list of directors and limiters, but just try |
| The reason that love spells don't work is because they | | | | to focus on the most important factors. For instance, |
| break one of the fundamental rules of magical | | | | you may find a kind temperament (with no tendencies |
| practice, rule #2 in Rules of the Road, which says: | | | | toward violence) to be of great importance. If so, add |
| Don't bind another being unless you are willing to be | | | | that to your list. Also, be sure to make any numbers in |
| likewise bound. This applies to many love spells and | | | | your list ranges, such as "earns an income between |
| some kinds of healing rituals. | | | | $x and $y." This gives the spell more room to work. |
| It's kind of like the Golden Rule: don't do unto others | | | | One other crucial point: the more specific your list of |
| what you wouldn't want them to do unto you. Think | | | | directors and limiters the more force it will take to bring |
| about this: would you want someone that you don't | | | | the love of your life to you. If you already feel a lot of |
| really love to bind you and make them fall in love with | | | | resistance in the love-life department, you may want |
| you? Probably not. The same holds true when you | | | | to start with a more general list and place fewer |
| want someone else to fall in love with you. Suppose | | | | "demands" on your spell in the beginning. As the spell |
| you are a woman wanting to cast a love spell on a | | | | begins to attract men into your life, you can always go |
| specific man. If the man of your dreams doesn't love | | | | back and "tweak" the list until it brings you the exact |
| you, then binding him with a love spell may cause him | | | | right person. Love, like everything else in life, is |
| to pay attention to you in the short term, but the | | | | sometimes a process. As our teacher Abraham-Hicks |
| long-term backlash could get ugly. The problem is that | | | | says, "You'll never get it done and you'll never get it |
| you'll have a hard time predicting what kind of karmic | | | | wrong." Just keep going until you attract the right |
| backlash would result from this kind of spell. | | | | person. |
| The good news is that you can still cast a love spell - | | | | And, of course, here is the most important detail. What |
| you just need one of a different flavor. While you can't | | | | do you do once you have your list? How do you cast |
| cast a spell to make a specific guy fall for you, you | | | | a safe spell? The simplest way is to use candle magic. |
| can cast a spell to bring a man of your dreams into | | | | You'll need a plate, a sun-yellow candle (preferably in |
| your life. To start this spell, you need to first write | | | | glass), and your list of directors and limiters. Place your |
| directors and limiters, which tell your spell what you | | | | list of directors and limiters on the plate and put the |
| want the spell to do (directors) and what you don't | | | | candle over the list. Each day, stand in the south facing |
| want the spell to do (limiters). For instance, your | | | | north with the candle, plate, and list in front of you. |
| directors may say that you want to attract a man | | | | From this position light the candle with a paper or |
| who: | | | | wooden match and let it burn for 30 minutes. This will |
| - is between the ages of 30 and 40 | | | | "launch" your spell into the Universe so it can begin |
| - lives within 100 miles of you | | | | attracting your desired love. Keep following this |
| - has a steady job and earns between $x and $y | | | | process until you see some results, then go back and |
| - shares similar interests as you (you might want to | | | | adjust the list as needed. |
| get specific here) | | | | |