| There are no hotels or lodges in the Southern | | | | |
| Paré of East Africa therefore it is | | | | I went straight to see the mother of William |
| difficult to reach this part of Tanzania, | | | | - she gave me a parcel and dispatched me to |
| that is, difficult for a tourist. This area | | | | the Hospital. The Pastor and I met in the |
| does not cater for westerners, except for | | | | hospital mortuary, we chose a nice coffin for |
| those willing to spend time traveling to find | | | | William. We opened the brown paper parcel. |
| these hidden jewels. I have worked on | | | | William's mother had given me his suit. The |
| Serengeti safaris, climbed Mt Kilimanjaro and | | | | suit William had never worn, the suit for the |
| traveled several times to Zanzibar. All this | | | | wedding just a few days before. The Pastor |
| was a fantastic adventure but I was not quite | | | | left to pay the medical bills and thereby |
| satisfied. I wanted to experience Africa | | | | release the body. I watched over the body of |
| proper, to experience as much of Tanzania as | | | | William as the mortuary assistant dressed him |
| I could. It was time to visit somewhere where | | | | and used super glue to glue his eye lids |
| there were few, or better still, no tourists, | | | | closed and then his lips. |
| where I would experience the real culture of | | | | |
| Africa. | | | | William's parents asked me to accompany them |
| | | | to the funeral; William would not be buried |
| When my chance came it was, unfortunately, | | | | in Arusha Town but taken "home" to the |
| under tragic circumstances. Now I was finally | | | | Paré Mountains. |
| to journey deep into the Southern Pare | | | | |
| Mountains. I wished that this journey had | | | | We left in a couple of battered 25 seater |
| never presented itself. The circumstances of | | | | buses, especially hired for this trip. The |
| this journey began as I lived in Arusha, | | | | coffin was in the isle of the bus, and young |
| Northern Tanzania. | | | | William's body had begun to smell. We left in |
| | | | the evening at 10 pm. About thirty of us |
| The village where I stayed was called Ngulelo | | | | squeezed onto each bus. We raced and rattled |
| just south of Arusha on the misty slopes of | | | | through the darkness, out of Arusha, then |
| Mount Meru. My near neighbors had befriended | | | | through Moshi town, when, after passing |
| me, along with their eight-year-old son, | | | | Kilimanjaro to our left, we turned south |
| William. My Christian name was | | | | toward the Pare. After about four hours of |
| unpronounceable for many Tanzanian's and as | | | | travel, we entered into a very small town |
| my surname was Williamson I became known in | | | | named, Somé. Here we left the comfort of |
| the village as William. This sharing of a | | | | the tarmac and traveled for another hour, |
| name with young William forged a bond between | | | | maybe two, along deep sandy roads, lit |
| the two of us. | | | | thankfully by a full moon, shining down from |
| | | | clear skies. |
| Williams Mother and Father had never been | | | | |
| able to afford a marriage certificate but his | | | | Eventually we arrived at the base of the |
| business had looked up and William's father | | | | mountain range. It was still dark and |
| had decided he would marry the mother of his | | | | therefore impossible to negotiate the narrow |
| child. The date of the wedding was set. | | | | rocky roads up the side of the mountains. We |
| | | | parked in a one street town. It was so quiet, |
| The morning of the wedding William was bitten | | | | I didn't know it was possible to experience |
| on his face by a dog. He almost lost his eye | | | | such stillness and quiet. As we stretched our |
| - he did miss the wedding. | | | | legs our voices echoed and ricocheted about |
| | | | the place and we wakened the locals. A few |
| Weddings in Tanzania normally take the whole | | | | roadside stalls opened to sell toothbrushes |
| afternoon and evening. Usually, on these and | | | | and hot tea and we brushed our teeth out in |
| other community events, William would sit | | | | the open, spiting into the sand. Then sitting |
| next to me and we would talk and meet people, | | | | on the stone steps of the old buildings |
| laughing and crying with the community. | | | | drinking black sweet spicy tea, we waited for |
| William would share the adventures he had | | | | the light of morning. |
| experienced since the last community event - | | | | |
| that is, since the last time we had spent | | | | William's father and mother never left the |
| time together. | | | | Bus. They waited in silence |
| | | | |
| I missed William at his parents wedding. I | | | | At 6.00am we were off again, this time a |
| sat alone and the empty seat I kept for | | | | steep assent, up and up and up. The mountains |
| William remained vacant as his wounds were | | | | here are breathtakingly beautiful, rolling |
| tendered to at the hospital. The following | | | | into the distance, with trees, birds and |
| day some of the elders thought the dog might | | | | water everywhere. We took a further ninety |
| have rabbis but others said categorically | | | | minutes to get to the home where were to |
| that it did not have rabbis. William's father | | | | burry William. The land was terraced and we |
| was asked to take William for shots just in | | | | sat outside a small house under a tree. The |
| case the dog was infected. William did not go | | | | whole community had come for the burial. The |
| for the shots as the cost was deemed not | | | | views were breathtakingly beautiful. We were |
| worth the hassle and the money, offered by | | | | so high, looking down onto the tops of lesser |
| the elders for the medication, was refused. | | | | mountains covered in thick forests and early |
| | | | morning mist. The people were warm and |
| William died very quickly. I was not present | | | | welcoming, plying us with more spiced tea. |
| at his death, so quickly did it occur. Early | | | | The buses had arrived with not only the body |
| one morning I met Mama Gifti the wife of the | | | | but sacks of rice and supplies to cook to |
| Pastor. It was unusual for her to be out so | | | | supply the masses with food after we had |
| early. She stopped me and asked if I heard | | | | buried William. The women became busy |
| that William had been admitted with rabbis | | | | preparing the food, the men sat around in |
| into hospital the night before. I had not. | | | | silence, broken now and then with murmurs of |
| | | | conversation. |
| I then hit me that Mama Gifti was in | | | | |
| tradition dress, a Kanga. The Kanga is two | | | | This trip was full of sadness and regret |
| matching pieces of fabric, one tied around | | | | about the young boy. We were all feeling we |
| the waist, the other used as a shawl and | | | | had not done enough to save him. The grave |
| instead of the normally colorful print, the | | | | was on a steep incline close to the house. As |
| kanga was plain white. This traditional | | | | the long funeral dew to a close I stood next |
| piece of attire was not usually worn by Mama | | | | to the grave and said my goodbyes to a very |
| Gifti. This could only mean one thing. The | | | | brave little friend whom I shall never |
| Kanga is worn by all women at funerals. White | | | | forget. At this point the Pastor paused and |
| is also the color of death. | | | | asked that the only non-African at the |
| | | | funeral say a few words about William. I |
| William was dead. The men had split into two | | | | started to speak of our friendship but my |
| parties. The Pastor and some of the men had | | | | voice broke and I wept, I could not continue. |
| gone to pay the hospital bill and make | | | | Every time I speak of this, tears are not far |
| arrangements to pick up the body. Others had | | | | away. Even now, as I write about this event, |
| gone in search of William's father who had | | | | my eyes fill with tears and my lip it |
| gone missing, distraught that William had | | | | trembles. |
| died. Blaming himself, he had fled from home | | | | |
| to be alone for a few hours. | | | | One day I plan to return to the Pare |
| | | | Mountains to explore them for myself. To take |
| Mama Gifti told me that as William lay on the | | | | some time and drink in Africa - away from |
| hospital bed the night, before his mother | | | | tourist and phony or over-organized cultural |
| wept. William comforted his mother telling | | | | visits. I will take some flowers and visit |
| her pleases not to cry. 'Yes', he told her, | | | | the grave of William and even though it is |
| 'soon I will die but I go to a better place'. | | | | only a grave I will talk to him of all my |
| William died soon after these words. The day | | | | adventures since our last meeting. |
| he died was his eighth birthday. | | | | |